Leaving an abusive relationship is a personal decision. For some people, separation can be a period of increased risk, particularly where the abusive person feels they are losing control.
Planning considerations
Depending on your circumstances, you may want to think about:
- where you and any children could go;
- safe transport;
- access to money and medication;
- important identification and documents;
- housing or refuge options;
- school, nursery or care arrangements;
- phones, passwords and location sharing;
- specialist legal information where needed.
Use a safe device if necessary
If you think your phone or online accounts are monitored, consider using a safer device when seeking support.
After separation
Abuse can continue through stalking, harassment, finances, technology, children or unwanted contact. Review your safety plan as circumstances change.
Pathway provides information, advocacy, practical support and referrals. We do not tell you whether you should leave or provide legal advice.