Children can experience the effects of domestic abuse in many ways. They may hear arguments or threats, see injuries or damaged property, experience sudden moves, notice a parent’s fear or be drawn into controlling behaviour.
Possible effects on children
Every child responds differently, but possible changes may include:
- anxiety, fear or becoming unusually watchful;
- sleep difficulties;
- changes in behaviour or concentration;
- withdrawal or anger;
- difficulty at school;
- feeling responsible for keeping family members safe;
- distress around separation or contact arrangements.
Children need adults to take responsibility for safety
Children should not be asked to intervene in abuse, monitor another adult or carry messages between adults. If a child talks about something frightening, listen calmly and take what they say seriously.
Getting support
Some children may benefit from specialist safeguarding, therapeutic, health or education support. Pathway can provide practical family support and signpost to appropriate specialist services.
If a child is in immediate danger, call 999.